Consumption and Happiness
It starts in the early years of life, we as children are given toys and treats as rewards for good behaivor. We grow up believing "stuff", can bring us pleasure. The newest clothes, toys, music, are always sought after. Brands can define us, who we are, what resources we have, our tastes. Consumption is a deep rooted problem in our society. It is engrained in our culture. We consume to stay present and connected with others. It has become a dangerous cycle of never having enough. This cycle has to end, our worlds resources cannot with stand the constant need for more. A new kind of happiness without consumption has to be recognized in order to end the need to consume.
People consume most when they feel a void. That space in our chest that needs to be filled with something that can bring us happiness. Whether its a new shirt that will finally make us the style icon we've always wanted. Or its the new car that will attract the people we've always desired to be friends with. It is always the next thing. But it is so fleeting. Once we finally obtain that desired item, we move on. Then its the next thing that we've always dreamed of. It is this vicious cycle that leaves us feeling hollow and ready to consume more. This need and desire within ourselves is what must be addressed. Why do we feel the need for more?
If instead of seeking an object, we sought an experience, we would be getting closer to the solution. If Instead of wanting that shirt that makes me stylish, I sought an experience with the people who are in fashion, or I put myself in a situation where I would meet those types of people, I would likely fulfill my needs much more than just simply purchasing a garment that I would likely move past. I could also attempt to learn to make the garment, or if it truly is the garment I desire, then I should wait a long time and give myself a chance to reflect on why I need to purchase it. Thoughtfulness in our purchasing can make all the differences.
There are so many different ways to approach the things we want. It is through logical thought and reasoning that we can hash out what we actually need, and what we just desire. If as a society, we began to place more value in our thoughts and experiences than on physical objects, our consumption would decrease rapidly. Consumption is a societal problem, it is a flaw within ourselves. We do not need to consume the way we do, we consume because we believe it brings us happiness. It instead brings us the opposite, and only the need to consume more. To end this vicious cycle of consumption, we must address the problem of happiness. Happiness can come from experience, relationships, and many other things. However, I think it is rare that an object can carry with it true happiness. To end our consumption we must realize, consuming more does not make us happier.



